Chop the nuts and dates. Try chopping vertically as it the characteristic way of adding chopped nuts in the recipe.
¼ cup Chopped Nuts
In a pan, add 1 tsp ghee then add cloves and green cardamom.
3-4 Cloves, 3-4 Green cardamom
Then add milk and keep it to boil on low flame. After 2-3 mins. of one boil, add chopped dates. Boil till it reduces to half. Keep on stirring in between.
1½ l Milk, ¼ cup Dried or firm Dates
Meanwhile, in another pan add 2 tsp ghee and roast vermicelli till is starts giving roasted aroma and turns brown. I already had roasted seviyan but I roasted it for a min. to get the typical desi ghee flavour.
2-3 tbsp Desi Ghee, 70 g Seviyan
Next roast the nuts, raisins (if using) or cranberries. Roast nuts till it gives roasted aroma and raisins puff up. Keep the flame to low as the nuts may burn if on high flame.
1-2 tbsp Raisins or Cranberries, ¼ cup Chopped Nuts
When milk is reduced to half, add roasted vermicelli and nuts.
Cook for another 5-10 mins. or till it starts to thicken. Do not cook to a very thick consistency, as it thickens on cooling. Switch off the gas.
Add cardamom powder and then sugar. Add and mix sugar.
1 tsp Green Cardamom Powder, Sugar
Cook for another 1-2 mins. and then switch off the gas.
Garnish with toasted coconut(grated/flakes). Top it with more nuts and dried rose petals and serve hot or chilled.
2 tbsp Grated Coconut